Showing posts with label Grace Wilhelm. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grace Wilhelm. Show all posts

Monday, September 14, 2015

Meet the Counselor Game

Another Great Article by Jeannie Maddox

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Meet the Counselor with Jenga!

Looking for a quick and easy "Welcome Back- What is a School Counselor lesson?"  Well, you've found one!  We've been playing School Counselor Jenga and the kids love it.  Actually, kids just love Jenga!   I had no idea how much until I bought a set of Jenga blocks for my School Counselor intro lesson. When I mentioned Jenga they got all excited. They stayed engaged the entire lesson and were very careful not to knock over the Jenga tower so everyone in their class could have a turn.
This was truly one of the easiest, simplest and most engaging lessons I have ever done. Seriously!

Lesson Prep
1. Buy Jenga blocks
2. Make and print a numbered list of questions
3. Number your blocks
4. Play School Counselor Jenga!

Make a numbered list of questions that reflect all the information you want your students to know about you, your job, procedures for seeing you, school rules, behavioral expectations or whatever is unique to you, your school, and your school counseling program. I came up with 42 questions for my lesson. You can see my list HERE to give you some ideas of what you might ask. Some of my questions are generic and can be used by all School Counselors, but since our schools, programs and procedures are different, your list will need to reflect the things that are special to your population and your school.  Next, get your Jenga blocks and using a black permanent marker, number the blocks to match your list of questions. You can number them on the top or on the end.  I chose to number mine on the end, no special reason.  I had about a dozen blank blocks left over, but that was okay, I had to rack my brain for the 42 questions on my list!

Playtime
After a brief introduction of new students, a reminder about procedures and my expectations for classroom behavior we got down to Jenga Time!  I explained I was not going to tell them about my job this year because they had been hearing from me for years.  This year, I was going have them tell me and each other what a School Counselor does.  I had the blocks set up on a table in the front of the room and told them we would take turns coming up and removing a block.  They would tell me the number and I would give them a School Counselor question.  If they couldn't answer it, they were allowed to call on a friend to help. I used the number of the day they were born to determine the order in which they would come up to take their turn. When I had 3 students born on the 18th, we went in order of which month came first.  The students had a great time, cheered, clapped and encouraged each other. Twenty-five missing blocks later our tower was still standing and my students had shown me how much they knew about what a School Counselor does and had taught our new students too.

Insights
As we played School Counselor Jenga, as I decided to call it, I had two thoughts.  First, I became aware of the things about my job the students struggled with or did not understand.  I  learned I have some re-teaching to do. Secondly, I began to realize my numbered Jenga blocks could be used in this same fun way to review a lesson or skills and assess how well my students understood the concepts of that lesson or unit.  How fun would that be?

The Inspiration
I was inspired to use Jenga after attending an ASCA session this summer on using games in your School Counseling program. I saw presenter Grace Wilhelm  demonstrate how she uses Jenga to get to know her students at the beginning of the school year. This got my brain thinking about how I could use games to introduce the School Counselor.  Thanks Grace!  To learn more about how to use all sorts of games in your counseling program, visit Grace at her blog Counselor Games.

Thanks for stopping by!  Here's to fun and engaging Meet the Counselor lessons!




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Monday, July 20, 2015

12 Tips for Counselors to Start the New School year


It is important to hit the ground running for the new school year!
Here is a blog post written by Jeannie Maddox, an elementary school counselor in Florida.

 

New Counselors: 12 Tips and Resources for Starting a New School Year

New Counselors: 12 Tips and Resources
for Starting a New School Year
The Back to School signs are in all the stores. Fall clothing, shiny new technology, a plethora pencils, pens, and colorful backpacks and lunch boxes fill the aisles.  There's excited chatter on FB from my real life friends and my online friends on the the Elementary School Counselor Exchange.  I can feel the anticipation as we look forward to first-time or new positions, new schools, new students, new administrators, new programs, and new challenges. I see the eagerness in the posting of questions and the sharing of  plans, lessons, and ideas for the start of the new school year.  As I make my own plans, which include supervising an intern, I am thinking about the things will need to tell her and all the things I wished I had known when starting as a new counselor.

Below you will find my "New Counselors:  12 tips and resources for starting a new school (year). Whether you are a counselor with your first job, or someone with experience starting a new school, I hope you will find these ideas and resources helpful in getting your year off to a great start!

 Congratulations!  You got the job!  Now what do you need to do to get started?

#1 Talk expectations with your administrator.
Okay, hopefully in your interview you were able to ask what sort of expectations your administration has in regard to your role as the school counselor.  This is a biggie, so if this is a conversation you have not had, or even if you did, take some time before the rest of the faculty heads back to school and make an appointment to go in and talk it over. Learn about your administrator's vision for the school and their understanding of the role of the school counselor.  Share and discuss the the ASCA National Model Executive Summary and talk about how based on the ASCA National Model you can be part of that vision.

#2 Set up your office (the physical space).
There is nothing more exciting than getting to decorate your space.  Whether a closet size office, a classroom, or something in between (I have had all of the above) you will need to create a warm and welcoming space for not only your student visitors, but teachers and parents as well.   I am currently moving my office to a portable classroom, so photos will have to come in a later post.

Your office should reflect your personality.  Be careful though not to be so "girly," the guys can't stand to be there, or so busy it makes it difficult for your fidgety ones to calm down.  Yard sales and consignment stores are great places for finding rugs, lamps, board games, and small toys to give it that homey touch. Plants, curtains, colorful posters, books, playdough, a sand tray, and art supplies are a few of the things that will complete the space.  See a great post by The Helpful Counselor for things needed to set up your office.  Check out my Pinterest for some office decorating and organizing ideas.

#3 Set up your office (your organizational system).
Organizing  the volume of data and information we have to handle is a huge responsibility and your ability to access it on a moments notice is the difference is looking like a seasoned pro versus, well, not making a good impression.  How you organize is a very individual thing and more personal, I think, than  how you decorate your space. Lots of folks can tell you how to organize, but the bottom line is you have to find what works for you. So until you do, I will share a very basic organizing system that has worked for me.  This year I am in transition and trying to go as paperless as possible and that means setting up Google forms for many of the ways I organize and use information.  I will share my paper method here.  Information and copies of my Google docs will have to wait for a later post. These are just a few ideas to get you started.  Perhaps you will find these methods helpful or will find some elements useful for creating your own system.

The "paper" system.
You will need: one 2 inch and two  1 1/2 inch  3 ring binders, 3 packs of eight tab dividers or 5 packs of  five tab dividers, a package of page protectors, 3 hole punch, a steno book, one plastic "milk" crate, letter size hanging folders, letter size files, and a calendar/planner.

 First, I create the 2 inch 3 ring binder I like to refer to as "Essential Information," but call it what you want.  There is a tab for "schedules" (your counselor schedule, lunch, special area, ESE, Speech, Media, Recess, bus info or whatever your school has a schedule for) collect them all and place each in a page protector.  "Class lists"  are tabbed by each grade level and ESE.  The "student master"  tab refers to a great list I get from my data clerk that lists students by last name with their parent's name and phone #.  A tab for "entries and withdrawals"  allows me to know who is coming and going (my registrar is great about keeping me in the loop) so I can scoop up the new students for a New Faces group. Last, there's a tab for "cum review" sheets,  but I'll talk about those later when we get to #4 Data.

Next I create the "Data Notebook."  This is one of the 1 1/2 inch binders with tabs for discipline referral data, attendance data, report card data (my school can run a D's and F's list),  a tab for "state test scores,"   and one each for student, teacher, and parent survey data. You will start with the data from the 2013-14 school year, but after analyzing that and your  recent survey data from the start of the school year, that information will direct your focus for addressing the needs of your school for the 2014-15 school year.




Third, create the Classroom Counseling Notebook.  Using the other 1 1/2 inch binder, you can organize this by grade level or day of the week, it is entirely up to you.  I like day of the week and have tabs labeled Monday to Friday.  Behind each tab are the classes I see that particular day.  I have a class list with holes punched on the right side of the page and a class lesson agenda with holes punched on the left so when I open the notebook I can see the student's names on the left and my lesson on the right.  I am a visual learner so seeing the names of my students helps me to learn them all.  It also gives me a place to add the names of new students who join the class or notes if someone has a special need or needs to sit separately from a classmate.
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Next, the steno book.  This is my phone log and I keep it by my phone always!  Each morning I date the page for the day and every time I answer or make a call I write down the time, whether it was an incoming or outgoing call,  the name of the caller, and any information or action I need to take in regard to the call.  If the school secretary leaves a note in my mailbox, I staple it to the back of the page and record the return call on the front.  This log is valuable beyond belief when it comes to documenting day, time, and content of calls.  It has been particularly useful for families who did not "remember" my call to them, documenting my calls to Child Services, and recording the numbers of individual investigators or agencies who call me regarding students.

There are many very cute and personalized planners/calendars out there.  If you want to spend the money and if that works for you, go for it!  It's all about being organized.  But for me, as pretty and as tempting as some of those planner/calendars are, I stick with the basic "At a Glance" 5 x 7 leather binder with a $4.50 "Plan Ahead" calendar from Big Lots. I've had the leather binder for 5 or more years and can't remember what I paid, but it has been well worth it.  Since I do my lesson planning in the 3 ring binders for classes and organize groups in crates, this is really more of a calendar for keeping track of meetings, conferences, workshops, school holidays, teacher workdays, PD days, etc.


I use the milk crate and hanging file folders to organize my groups.  Hanging files are labeled and arranged by day of the week and each group gets two hanging folders.  The first has 2 individual letter size folders for storing the group counseling log and permission slips and the other for storing group activity booklets of projects in process. The second hanging file has 6-8 folders each containing the lesson and materials to be used for each group session.

File folders are also used for individual counseling records.  As I see a student I create a file for my notes, any conference forms, behavior contracts, etc.  It makes it easy to add to year after year. These are filed  alphabetically and should be in a locked filing cabinet or file box. When a student transitions to the middle school,  their file goes in a box of records for that school year and is stored for 7 years.  I don't know the official storage requirement, but my mentor told me long ago to keep my records for one year past the year the youngest students for that school year would be out of my school (in my case Kdg). At that point those records are destroyed.  Like I said, I don't know the official storage requirements, but 5 years ago I was glad I had some two and three year old records when Child Services came doing an investigation for court on a case we had been calling about for years.

As for lesson plans and activities, many are digital, but for others I use a letter file cabinet with hanging folders.  I file lessons by topic and then by grade within the topic folder.

#4  Data: Gather and Collect.
First, gather.  By gather, I mean get your hands on the data that is already out there.  You will need it to determine the  needs of your school and the direction of your program.  In that first meeting with your administrator request copies of the previous year's discipline referral data (I can get it by the quarter and for the year broken down by name, grade, gender, # of referrals, etc.), attendance data- who has more than 15 days absent and/or tardy, report card data as in students with D and F averages by subject for the school year.  Some report cards also have teachers mark conduct and personal development.  If there is a way to run a report on students who were marked unsatisfactory or needs improvement,  that data can be beneficial for determining the types of groups that are needed and by whom. Finally, of course, get copies of your standardized state testing scores.
Next collect.  By collect I mean take a teacher survey of perceived counseling needs, ask parents to complete surveys about their interest in particular newsletter, coffee talk, or workshop topics, and survey the students (usually grades 3-5) about any issues or concerns they are experiencing.
Another way I collect data is from a cumulative record review of new students. Teachers and administrators will be able to tell you about the students who are returning to your school, but the new students are unknown to everyone.  A cumulative record review can reveal lots of valuable and important information like medical and court issues, retention, multiple enrollments, and students in need of special academic or behavioral services.

#5 Prepare introductory materials.
Every new counselor needs a letter of introduction to parents,  a parent, a teacher, and a student needs survey, some business cards, a brief presentation of some type that describes your role as the school counselor, counseling referral forms, and a brochure to send home describing the role of the school counselor. Included here are samples of an introductory letter to parents, parent, teacher and student surveys, "Role of the Counselor" PowerPoint, counselor referral forms, and a program brochure. Business cards can be ordered from Vistaprint or printed at home with your computer and color printer using Avery business cards.


#6 Sign up teachers for a "Meet the Counselor" class lesson.
During  pre-planning  get your teachers to sign up for their initial classroom counseling lesson (usually about 30 minutes).  Some people have recommended a free program called SignUpGenius to help schedule their classroom visits.   I'm in the special area rotation so I have not used it, but I hear reports it is a great website.  Click on the link above to see how easy it is to get your teachers to sign up on line.

#7 Present "Meet the Counselor" lessons in every classroom.
Make it your mission the first few weeks of school to get in every classroom and introduce yourself, do a brief activity, and take a student survey in grades 3-5.  These lessons can last around 30 minutes and will set the tone for who you are as a professional, how you handle your schedule, and get you out and about the campus and connecting with your students.  I have included  two of my "Meet the Counselor" lessons for Kindergarten here , 1st grade here and 1st grade PowerPoint here.  You may also find my  classroom counseling log for tracking the lessons in each class you visit helpful.   Be sure to check out  Pinterest for some awesome counselor boards filled with a variety of lessons and Teachers Pay Teachers for all sorts of  free and low cost "Meet the Counselor" lessons.

#8 Meet, greet, and survey teachers.
After the initial crush of "Meet the Counselor" lessons, depending on the size of your school, you will be anywhere from 2-4 weeks into the school year.  Teachers have had a chance to get to know their students a little and are beginning to have a sense of what those students need. Set aside a day to invite your teachers by your office (if too small, snag another more appropriately sized space) for a Counselor Open House.  I set it up for teachers to come by during their special area time for a quick snack and to fill out a student and class needs survey.  I usually have doughnuts, coffee and juice in the morning and soft drinks and cookies in the afternoon.  It's a chance to chat informally about how things are going with their students, address any questions or concerns, share your form for referring students to see you and then send them on their way with a small token like pens, highlighters, motivational thought, candy etc.

#9 Share your role with the staff.
When you are having that little visit with your administrator you not only want to discuss expectations and data, but also ask for an opportunity to do a brief 5-7 minute presentation to the faculty about the role of the school counselor.  Keep it short and sweet.  There are still many educators that have little to no clue about what School Counselors really do.

#10 Meet and survey your families.
Notice I did not say parents.  So many of our children are being raised by grandparents, other relatives, or are in foster care.  Referring to their caregivers as family, offers sensitivity to their various situations which at times may be difficult or even traumatic.
The three best ways to meet the families of your students is to make yourself visible at Meet the Teacher, Open House, and at dismissal. Make sure to have business cards with you!
Meet the Teacher: Our school hosts Meet the Teacher the Friday morning before the first day of school.  Everyone comes to find out who their teacher is and where their classroom is located. Showing your smiling face around campus to answer questions or provide directions gives you the perfect opportunity to start meeting your students and their caregivers. 
Open House: In our district, Open House is sometime between the 4th and 6th week of school.  Make your presence known by having your office open, maybe sitting outside of it, or having some  fun music playing to attract the families as they walk by.  You could even invite students to stop by to sign up for a drawing for small prizes like lunch with the counselor, extra recess (you supervise, teacher gets a break),school supplies, or books.  
Dismissal:  At dismissal time there are lots of families on campus picking up their children. Get out and about among the throng.  Smiling, waving, and sharing an encouraging word with a caregiver regarding their student shows you are caring and approachable. 

#11 Get to know your students in small groups.
One of my favorite beginning of the year activities is meeting every student in the school in a small group for one "getting to know you session."  In the past few years, my school has been too large, but recent redistricting has reduced our population and I am excited to try again.  I ask each teacher for a three 30 minute blocks in which I will pull a third of his/her students each block. I then divide the students into 3 groups and bring them to my room for a brief paper and pencil, drawing, or sentence completion activity.  I have also set myself up as a center activity in the primary classroom and am able to see some of the younger students more easily than walking them back and forth to my office.  Depending on the needs of your school, this activity can take almost the entire first semester.  After meeting everyone for one "getting to know you session", the remainder of the year, I do a weekly New Faces group, often during lunch for one session, to catch any new students that may have entered my school.

#12 Find a school-based mentor and a School Counselor mentor.
Finding a mentor is important, and I don't just mean a fellow counselor.  When you are new at a school it is important to find a seasoned faculty member with a positive attitude and good work ethic, who sees the value in what you do to show you the ins and outs of the school.  I have 2 teachers at my school whose opinions I highly respect. These ladies are the ones from whom I have learned the most about classroom management techniques. They are the first people I go to if I want to launch a new program or idea. They are the ones I ask to read any letters I might be sending home or emails to teachers I think are not quite clear.  They encourage me and respect what I do. They are an important part of my support system and I don't know what I will do when they retire!

Depending on the size of your district, will determine how easily you find a counselor mentor.  I work in a large district and when I first became a counselor, I was lucky enough to get a job in the same district where I interned and my internship supervisor was assigned as my mentor.  Maybe you can find a mentor in your district, or from your internship, or in one of the many online Facebook groups. Whether you meet in person, email, or talk on the phone or Skype, networking with other counselors is the best way to grow and learn and to diminish the isolation we can so easily feel as we pursue our school counseling program.

I  hope you will find these 12 tips for (new) counselors helpful.  Are there things you wish you had known when you first started?  What sort of  things do you do to start the new school year?
Please share your tips and ideas below in the comments.

Message from Grace Wilhelm 

 If you are interested in being a guest blogger on Counselor Games, please email me at grace @ counselorgames.com.  We would love to share your ideas, games, activities or any helpful information for school counselors, teachers, parents and/or youth workers.   Let's all help each other to hit the ground running as we get ready for the new school year!


We are starting a RAMP group for counselors who are serious about a comprehensive school counseling program.  Let us know you are interested in being a part of a group of counselors who want to build an award winning program.  Contact Grace at grace @ counselorgames.com.


Grace is a National Board Certified Counselor and has achieved the RAMP award for her last middle school.  She presents on RAMP and Building a Comprehensive School Counseling Program for school counselors.  The presentation takes counselors through all the ASCA model components with examples from elementary and secondary schools with a simple step-by-step approach.  The workshop consists of examples, diagrams, discussion, question and answer, hands-on get started now, and how-to-use charts and rubrics to build your program based on your school data and needs. For information on a presentation, please contact Grace or info @ counselorgames.com.  See list of other presentations by Grace. 


PS:  Remember to take out spaces in the emails above! 




Wednesday, May 20, 2015

5 Signs that Anger is a Problem





When does anger become a problem?

There are five times when anger becomes a problem :
  •  it is expressed for the wrong reason.
  •  it becomes too intense.
  •  it lasts too long.
  •  it leads to aggression.
  •  it disturbs school, work, or relationships.

Do you have students who get stuck in their anger?  Can they identify with one or more of the statements above?

Ask students to give an example of anger for each category.
Create your own examples on cards and ask students to match them with each problem.
How can you resolve the anger once it is identified?   Ask students to come up with ways to stop or prevent getting into a situation that will cause them to be  angry.

I live to use the Jumpin' Monkeys game to show students how they get themselves stuck in their own problems.  They keep doing the same thing over and over and keep getting the same results.  This could be in relationships, homework, classwork, chores or decisions.  Process through the problem where they are getting stuck using the monkeys you catapult through the air.  If you do not move the catapult, you can not hit the tree.  You must move!

The same is true to teach this example with Ants in the Pants.  If you keep the ants in the same place and do not move them in order to hit your target, you will never get there.  You have to MOVE the ants to win!  Relate this to everyday life.  You have to do something different to get different results.  You don't like a discipline referral, then what can you change?   You get F's for assignments, then what can you do differently.

Sometimes, I will tape the catapult to the table purposely to show the student he is stuck.  I will ask him to play the game.  He might try and get frustrated.  He realizes he has to move or change to hit the target.  This is a valuable hands-on exercise.  Finally light-bulbs turn on!  They can take the tape off!  They can do something different.  If something is not working, they learn to do something else.  Most students do this naturally when they don't get the results they want.  Some need your help to work through this and learn to do this as a skill that is taught to them.

Need more ideas on this?  Demonstrations and directions are in the DVDs.  Counselor use to ask me to show them with the game or create a video series.  So I did!  Games and Play is a set of DVDs to show you how to do it.  It is Creative, Engaging, and FUN.

More on anger management for students.
Anger and Me is a student workbook that is reproducible.  Make as many copies as you need.
You can find it on Amazon: Anger and Me


There are examples of what students do when they express anger in the wrong ways in the workbook if you would like to use them instead of coming up with your own.   Quizzes are also included in the workbook.  The workbook can be used in individual or small group sessions.  They can be used in classrooms.  It is suitable for grades 4 - 12.  Adults have found it useful too!  Some businesses in my area have used it for their employees.  I ask parents to read it with their child.  Do 2-3 pages a day.  Talk about it together.  Discuss the examples.


I want to hear from you!
Let me know what you think, your ideas, your thoughts.
Contact me at:
grace @ counselorgames.com



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Sunday, December 21, 2014

School Counselor Gets Interviewed in Executive Lifestyles Ezine

Turn “Stress Management” into a Business

Work hard, Play hard!  What’s the philosophy behind this?  Stress management? Bingo!  
And same for our children and students nowadays. When you are thinking how to cut down their spending on getting new toys, do you realize we can use everyday games to make unforgettable and creative techniques that can improve their socialization and communication skills too?
This week we have Grace Wilhelm to tell us how she turns the “game strategies” into her business while solving the student’s problems on anger and communication management.

Jane: Hello Grace, can you tell us about yourself and your business?

Grace: I am a national board certified counselor with over 20 years experience in school and mental health counseling. Over the years I have designed and perfected how to use play therapy techniques and integrate them into everyday, familiar games to teach students the strategies for stress management, anger control, building relationships, study and organizational skills, decision making, making friends and more. Some of the games used include: Don’t Break the Ice, Barrel of Monkeys, Jumpin’ Monkeys, Topple and Pick-up Sticks. Over twenty games are used. .

Wow…. Put Play into Work?!  What motivated you to start this business?

Grace: As a speaker and presenter I am often asked to deliver my play therapy workshop, or present on a topic such as stress management and games or study skills and games. Presentations have been delivered locally, regionally and nationally. I have also presented as far as Papau New Guinea! When counselors or educators ask me what I am doing or how I am doing it, I am delighted and honored to share with them. Often they will ask for repeat demonstrations, a book, or video. I had none of that and not even a business card! So last year I started to put it all together with a Website, twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, videographers, graphic designers and editors. There were some student workbooks I wrote for anger control and stress management and we tweaked them. We got permission from Hasbro and Pressman Toy Company to use their games in DVDs and other social media. Out of this came two DVDs: Games and Play to Enhance Counseling and Teaching Strategies, Volumes I and II. Educators can review the demonstrations or if they are unable to attend a presentation, they can see them here.
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How does this different from the normal way of counselling at  school then? 

In the past, play therapy techniques were only used in mental health sessions and school counselors were managers of resources who did not do any counseling. The tables have turned and school counselors are more involved in counseling – not only academics and career, but helping with personal and social counseling in the school setting.

Let’s talk about business. What have you found to be your most effective way in finding the new clients?  

Speaking and presenting at conferences has helped put my name and practice in the fore front. I have been Keynote at different events on the state level and overseas. I have presented at parent groups, luncheons, and national conferences. Often I am asked to present or invited to write a proposal. It is a nice place to be and I feel very appreciated by my colleagues. In social media, my website, blog and LinkedIn have been the most effective. 


What is a day in the life of you like?  

A typical day usually starts with reading about one hour, checking email and then doing some writing. Then I am off to work as a school counselor. When I get home, I connect with family and friends, finish work on some writing and/or consulting, relax with some reading or conversation and then go to bed..

I’m sure dealing with stress of some other people, you have to manage your own peace of mind too.  How did you handle the challenges that you encounter?

To handle to challenges, I have created a great team of people around me. I allow them to be creative and then let them go. They are my videographers, photographers, web designers, graphics designers, editors, and consultants. Although I do not have a full-time employee yet, my team is one of the best and so creative, talented, and helpful. I could never do this on my own. We listen to the input and feedback of each other and everyone gets the mission for educators and how it benefits students and the community in the long run.


How do you keep yourself motivated during the difficult times?

When things get a little difficult or challenging, I pull away from the work so I can get time to think. I will go for a walk, connect with friends for a get-together. Getting my mind off the difficult part for a couple of days allows me to return to the work with a fresh perspective. I also like to read motivational quotes or listen to webinars. I have some motivational books that stay close to me.

What will you recommend to those people who want to be their own boss?

Start with doing. It is because when you think too much, you may never start at all. Once you have started, think of better ways to grow your business and be true to yourself. So understand yourself. Once you’ve have found your pace, you get more confidence and then you will start and dare to dream big.

How do you see the “work-life” balance?

It is important to work hard and then play hard. I will take time to be with my family, enjoy elaborate family dinners, travel the world to see family as they are spread out that way, and connect with friends. I will actually write that time in my schedule because I don’t want anything to interfere with that time. I am a member of some clubs and interesting groups. I make a lot of effort to keep involved with them. They have nothing to do with my work, but I often find the new connections and people I meet contribute to a new idea or twist on something not thought of before. Balance in life also includes a spiritual connection. I connect with God through prayer and Scripture. I believe creativity comes from God and I am thankful for that and my relationship with Him.


What is the upcoming marketing plan that you want to share with us?

I am putting together some play therapy workshops on my own. I am starting with my local community and targeting parents, youth workers, and educators. From there I plan to spread out in my state and keep going. Right now I am using word of mouth and friends of friends to spread the word. The first workshops are small in order to work out kinks. We will get bigger from there. This is different than attending a conference or seminar where other people/organizers plan the event, venue, and marketing. I will speak or present to a room of 30 or 250. The workshops I am now planning are on my own. This includes the event, venue and marketing. It is a lot of work.
Thanks Grace again for her sharing.  You won’t realize that, this sweet lady Grace, who always talks about Play, Games etc, has two grandchildren already!  So what is the thing holding you up to start up your business?  Talk to us, and share with us what you have in mind!

How to get in touch with Grace?
Email: grace@counselorgames.com
Website: www.counselorgames.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/counselorgames
Twitter: www.twitter.com/counselorgames
Linkedin: http://www.linkedin.com/profile/view?id=73276328&trk=nav_responsive_tab_profile


Phone Number: +904.887.9629

Photo source: Grace Wilhelm

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Friday, December 19, 2014

9 Exciting Games School Counselors Must Have

Play Therapy for Schools


Play Therapy is the number one way to reach students and facilitate working discussions.  Every counselor must have a stash of everyday, familiar games.   Play therapy is auditory, visual and kinesthetic (you know, the big word for hands-on!)

hands-on

Don't you find it frustrating to scour the catalogs for games on bullying, anger and self-control only to end up purchasing a game with too many parts and pieces and too complicated to figure out and play?   Why purchase an expensive overpriced complicated game when you could use everyday familiar games that kids know and love?  Games like Don't Break the Ice and Jumpin' Monkeys and Jenga.  They are inexpensive and FUN to play.  The counseling strategies can be integrated into the games and they can be used over and over.  Do not worry!  We show you how right here.

inexpensive


Wouldn't you love to use everyday day to teach students about anger control, stress management, goals, making friends, communication skills, relationships, study and organizational skills, and much more.  It is what you do everyday and it can be FUN, memorable and make a difference in the lives of your students.  It is creative and engaging.

creative and engaging


9 Must Have Games for 
School Counselors


Jenga
Topple
Jumpin' Monkeys
Pick Up Sticks
Tumble
Perfection!
Don't Break the Ice
Barrel of Monkeys
Playing Cards

Here is a list of the games, what you can do with play therapy during your sessions, and approximate  cost at toy stores or local department stores: 

Jenga - relationships, career education, introductions, making friends, anger control, sentence completions  $12, Hasbro)
Topple - relationships, priorities, goals ($10, Pressman)
Jumpin' Monkeys - goals, getting assignments completed, priorities, project completion ($10 Pressman)
Pick Up Sticks - relationships, groups, dividing into teams, selecting volunteers, dependncies, communication skills ($2 - 7 depending on size and number, $7 Giant Pick Up Sticks, Pressman)
Tumble -  making friends, stress management, stress relief, causes of stress, getting A's and better grades, losing weight, being healthy, creating strategies, problem solving, 
and more ($10 Pressman)
Perfection! - organizational skills, teamwork, communication skills
and more and more and more!  ($ different sizes and prices ranging $8-27 Hasbro)
Don't Break the Ice - study skills, making friends, organization, stress relief, communication skills $8 Hasbro)
Barrel of Monkeys - team building, communication, building community, making friends, study skills, goals, decision making, any lesson involving a list of things to remember ($6-9, different colors and types of monkeys,  Hasbro)
Playing Cards - raffles, selecting teams, selecting students, fairness and equity


Purchase the Play Pack.  
1) DVD: Games and Play to Enhance Counseling and Teaching Strategies, Volume One     2) DVD: Games and Play to Enhance Counseling and Teaching Strategies, Volume Two     3) Three (3) Games: Tumble, Jumpin’ Monkeys, and Topple. 



This will be one of the most effective and easiest programs to implement.  We show you how to integrate counseling strategies into the games.  Use simple play therapy techniques with everyday games.  


You get all this-

The Play Pack includes everything you need to get started:  
 Two DVDs, Volumes I and II: Games and Play to Enhance Counseling and Teaching Strategies. 
Jumpin' Monkeys, Tumble, Topple
Booklets are included with the DVDs.

Be Creative, Engaging and FUN!






      Grace Wilhelm is a National Board Certified Counselor with experience in mental health and school counseling.  She enthusiastically presents to counselors, teachers, youth workers, and parents on anger, stress, crises intervention, communication, data, counseling programs, play sessions, and more. 
      Grace's past achievements and awards include ASCA National School Counselor of the Year Semifinalist, RAMP, and FLDOE Parent Involvement Award and Teacher of the Year.  



contact Grace at grace@counselorgames.com


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Friday, October 31, 2014

An Interview with Grace Wilhelm in Executive Lifestyles

This is an article that was published in Executive Lifestyles this week by Jane Wong about Counselor Games.  
Executive Lifestyles

Work hard, Play hard!  
What’s the philosophy behind this?  Stress management? Bingo!  

And same for our children and students nowadays. When you are thinking how to cut down their spending on getting new toys, do you realize we can use everyday games to make unforgettable and creative techniques that can improve their socialization and communication skills too?

This week we have Grace Wilhelm to tell us how she turns the “game strategies” into her business while solving the student’s problems on anger and communication management.



Jane: Hello Grace, can you tell us about yourself and your business?

Grace: I am a national board certified counselor with over 20 years experience in school and mental health counseling. Over the years I have designed and perfected how to use play therapy techniques and integrate them into everyday, familiar games to teach students the strategies for stress management, anger control, building relationships, study and organizational skills, decision making, making friends and more. Some of the games used include: Don’t Break the Ice, Barrel of Monkeys, Jumpin’ Monkeys, Topple and Pick-up Sticks. Over twenty games are used. .

Wow…. Put Play into Work?!  What motivated you to start this business?

Grace: As a speaker and presenter I am often asked to deliver my play therapy workshop, or present on a topic such as stress management and games or study skills and games. Presentations have been delivered locally, regionally and nationally. I have also presented as far as Papau New Guinea! When counselors or educators ask me what I am doing or how I am doing it, I am delighted and honored to share with them. Often they will ask for repeat demonstrations, a book, or video. I had none of that and not even a business card! So last year I started to put it all together with a Website, twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, videographers, graphic designers and editors. There were some student workbooks I wrote for anger control and stress management and we tweaked them. We got permission from Hasbro and Pressman Toy Company to use their games in DVDs and other social media. Out of this came two DVDs: Games and Play to Enhance Counseling and Teaching Strategies, Volumes I and II. Educators can review the demonstrations or if they are unable to attend a presentation, they can see them here.


How does this different from the normal way of counseling at  school then? 

In the past, play therapy techniques were only used in mental health sessions and school counselors were managers of resources who did not do any counseling. The tables have turned and school counselors are more involved in counseling – not only academics and career, but helping with personal and social counseling in the school setting.

Let’s talk about business. What have you found to be your most effective way in finding the new clients?  

Speaking and presenting at conferences has helped put my name and practice in the fore front. I have been Keynote at different events on the state level and overseas. I have presented at parent groups, luncheons, and national conferences. Often I am asked to present or invited to write a proposal. It is a nice place to be and I feel very appreciated by my colleagues. In social media, my website, blog and LinkedIn have been the most effective.


What is a day in the life of you like?  

A typical day usually starts with reading about one hour, checking email and then doing some writing. Then I am off to work as a school counselor. When I get home, I connect with family and friends, finish work on some writing and/or consulting, relax with some reading or conversation and then go to bed..

I’m sure dealing with stress of some other people, you have to manage your own peace of mind too.  How did you handle the challenges that you encounter?

To handle to challenges, I have created a great team of people around me. I allow them to be creative and then let them go. They are my videographers, photographers, web designers, graphics designers, editors, and consultants. Although I do not have a full-time employee yet, my team is one of the best and so creative, talented, and helpful. I could never do this on my own. We listen to the input and feedback of each other and everyone gets the mission for educators and how it benefits students and the community in the long run.


How do you keep yourself motivated during the difficult times?

When things get a little difficult or challenging, I pull away from the work so I can get time to think. I will go for a walk, connect with friends for a get-together. Getting my mind off the difficult part for a couple of days allows me to return to the work with a fresh perspective. I also like to read motivational quotes or listen to webinars. I have some motivational books that stay close to me.

What will you recommend to those people who want to be their own boss?

Start with doing. It is because when you think too much, you may never start at all. Once you have started, think of better ways to grow your business and be true to yourself. So understand yourself. Once you’ve have found your pace, you get more confidence and then you will start and dare to dream big.

How do you see the “work-life” balance?

It is important to work hard and then play hard. I will take time to be with my family, enjoy elaborate family dinners, travel the world to see family as they are spread out that way, and connect with friends. I will actually write that time in my schedule because I don’t want anything to interfere with that time. I am a member of some clubs and interesting groups. I make a lot of effort to keep involved with them. They have nothing to do with my work, but I often find the new connections and people I meet contribute to a new idea or twist on something not thought of before. Balance in life also includes a spiritual connection. I connect with God through prayer and Scripture. I believe creativity comes from God and I am thankful for that and my relationship with Him.


What is the upcoming marketing plan that you want to share with us?

I am putting together some play therapy workshops on my own. I am starting with my local community and targeting parents, youth workers, and educators. From there I plan to spread out in my state and keep going. Right now I am using word of mouth and friends of friends to spread the word. The first workshops are small in order to work out kinks. We will get bigger from there. This is different than attending a conference or seminar where other people/organizers plan the event, venue, and marketing. I will speak or present to a room of 30 or 250. The workshops I am now planning are on my own. This includes the event, venue and marketing. It is a lot of work.

Thanks Grace again for her sharing.  You won’t realize that, this sweet lady Grace, who always talks about Play, Games etc, has two grandchildren already!  So what is the thing holding you up to start up your business?  Talk to us, and share with us what you have in mind!

How to get in touch with Grace?
Email: grace@counselorgames.com
Website: www.counselorgames.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/counselorgames
Twitter: www.twitter.com/counselorgames
Linkedin: http://www.linkedin.com/profile/view?id=73276328&trk=nav_responsive_tab_profile


Phone Number: +904.887.9629

Photo source: Grace Wilhelm


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